He does not care that your hair is a mess

Translation: He misses you and wants to see you as you are not as you think he wants to see you.

You are right in an argument that he is losing

Translation: He knows you are not right but doesn't wish to die yet. Also he wants you to cook something cause all the arguing is making him hungry.

Asks what are you cooking

Translation: How long will it take?

Might update this