All our life, ever since we are young. 

"love is everything"

Is the basic message.

Usually in most movies, stories, and other things.

All main characters have a crush, or lover, or love interest.

When I was younger I remeber thinking 

"There is not a single story where the person doesn't have a lover"

I have realized that we've been taught since we were young that you have to love someone to be happy, so that you won't end up like the sad, lonely villian.

Girls fantasizing about their prince charming, and boys about their pretty helpless princesses.

While it isn't everything it IS most.

Mabye we can even call it brainwashing.

Love is nice and everything.

But some of us are Aro/ace. 

And are invalided because of it

Thank you for coming to my ted talk, my next show

is next chapter :)