✉️ Kyle

Fri, 29 Jun

17:55

Hi Gloomy.

Wusss uuuuppp

Nothing.

just cleaning the whole day

Eh...

You're tired probably

I feel tired even if I do nothing

Eh...

Don't tire yourself too much.

I'm not.

18:21

Uhmm... Let's have smthng to talk to.

I call this 'Did you T.H.I.N.K. before you spoke?'

I'll give you questions for you to answer.

And you'll answer the following guidelines:

T- is what i want to say TRUE?
H- is what i want to say HELPFUL?
I- am I the best one to say it?
N- is it NECESSARY to say it now?
K- is it KIND to the person and others?

You'll mark the following letters with either yes, no, or i don't know.

Game?

18:29

Hm okay.

Okay. First question.

Imagine this is your point of view.

I saw a girl looking at her phone during a test. I went up to the teacher after class and told him that she was cheating. Did I T.H.I.N.K. before I spoke?

Is what I want to say TRUE?

No.

I don't know what's about her phone so I won't make a sudden conclusion that she is indeed cheating.

Is what I want to say HELPFUL?

Which part? I don't know.

Am I the best one to say it?

I don't want to meddle with anyone's business so whatever and i don't care

It's yes, no, or i don't know, Gloomy.

No.

Is it NECESSARY to say it now?

Those who report someone who cheated are either they're very intelligent or they're seeking for a teacher's attention to have plus points in their grades. Tss.

And your answer is??

No.

Is it KIND to the person and others?

I don't know. I don't know her story. It would be an insult to her if I will report her that she cheated but the truth is she didn't, but if she really did cheat, then she's guilty.

Hmm... What a nice answer, Gloomy.

Okay. Next question.

18:42

I saw Maria's boyfriend leaving the movie theather with another girl. I called Maria and said her boyfriend was cheating on her. Did I T.H.I.N.K before I spoke?

Is what I want to say TRUE?

Yes. It's true that her boyfriend is together with another girl. Oww she better break up with that guy.

Ehh hahaha

You're bitter, aren't you?

If all guys are like that, I better be bitter.

Haha

But not all, Gloom. Don't generalize.

I'm not generalizing here

I just said If all. IF ALL. IF. 'IF'

Just IF. I didn't say all guys are indeed like that.

Haha okay okay.

Calm down.

Is what I want to say HELPFUL?

For Maria's part, yes. So she won't be fooled by a jerk.

AmI the best one to say it?

I can tell it since I witnessed it but as what I've said I don't want to meddle anyone's business so i don't know.

Is it necessary to say it NOW?

Yes. Before its too late.

Is it KIND to this person and others?

I don't know.

Okay. That's all.

Actually, this can be a personality test to see if what will you do and think in such scenarios

And as what I've seen in your answers...

Uhm...

Haha

I don't know haha

Why you don't know?

You got the best answers in question 1. And as what you've said, you don't want to meddle with anyone's business. Well, that can be an advantage but at the same time, it could be a disadvantage.

How come it could be a disadvantage?

How come?

What if someone get murdered and you're the witness, will you still prevent yourself to meddle with that person's concern?

Meddling with someone's concern has negative consequences.

Is it just always negative?

What if, your statement as a witness could be the way to have that mudered person, a justice?

Will you still say no to meddle things or yes?

Hm...

I don't know

But better not to meddle anyone's business. To play safe.

Okaaayyy

19:18

But I want you not to play safe. Don't be a centrist, Gloomy. Have a stand on either positive of negative outcome of something.

Hm. Okay.

I'll keep that on mind.

But we all want to stand on a positive outcome, right?