I'm uncomfortable already at this.

I'll do this in the context of a possible relationship, so I can maybe think it through properly.

'Turn on'
-would much rather chill and watch Netflix than anything else
-Respectful of personal space
-Understand we both have lives and goals.
-uses consent
-supportive of things LGBT+ and other things.
-is patient.
-doesn't push expectations into me.
-enjoys the comfort of silence.
-will let me win a game of gaming among us without getting upset.
- is comforting and compassionate.
-cuddles w cats
-doesn't drink (lots, they can have the occasional but not everyday)

'Turnoffs'
-pressures me to rush things
-doesn't use consent!
-isn't accepting
-lies to me
-use me as a living toy. NOT JUST LIKE THAT ALSO MANIPULATING!
- constant put-downs (I'm self-deprecating enough I don't need someone else to tell me that no one will love me, I ALREADY know that)
-drinks or smokes alot

Ok, I have a bad taste in my mouth and I hate the fact I just wrote these down. Enjoy or whatever I guess.