Yes, its me again. I'm posting again, atleast I'm trying to keep this book active.

Disclaimer: its my opinion, you are of course allowed to do so as well - but stay respectful. If i see any comment that's not appropriate, i will delete.

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One thing i have seen a lot of times now, is that girls reply often with the phrase „sorry, i have a boyfriend". Even if some men just comes to them „excuse me miss" . And my question is: why?
You don't know what he wants or who he is.
I've seen it in the city (rl) just like on social media.

I do understand that there are of course some men (also women but mainly men) that want to take advantage of young women alone at the city or forest or anywhere else. Theres a lot of sexual abuse happening, and i don't want to say that you shouldn't be careful about sharing things - especially personal information. But there's no reason to „protect" yourself in these situations, if someone comes to you saying „excuse me, miss" .

Most men/people only want to ask for directions or maybe that your take a photo of them. Is there something wrong with this? Just because 1/200 men has bad intentions doesn't mean everyone has sexual or abusive attentions.

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What do you think about that topic? About the statement „sorry i have a boyfriend"?
Is it fair for women to be so careful and disrespectful? Or is it their right?
Let me know <3