Adventures Of An Ace

Well shit. Because of all the dumbass comments on my last topic, today is wholly dedicated to the friendzone.

No, don't think I'm supporting you if you believe in it.

Let's look at scenario A: 
Joon likes Min. He has for 4 years, and during those 4 years, they were friends. Best friends even. Now, one night, Joon can't take it anymore, and he confesses. Min thanks him, but softly tells him that he doesn't want to be anything more than friends. Joon is sad, of course. But he agrees to stay friends. You know why? Because no trumps yes, and because Joon is not a total asshole. Joon recognizes Min's value as a person, and knows that being friend is a great thing, and he doesn't want to lose him just because he wants to be more.

Now, take a look at scenario B: 
Donald likes Vlad. He has for maybe like 6 months. He is so confident in his appeals that he doesn't confess to Vlad. He straight up forces himself onto him. When Vlad refuses, he gets mad. Vlad explains that he only loves his dog, and doesn't want to love a person, but he'd like to remain friends. Donald refuses, shaming Vlad for leading him on and putting him in the friend zone.

If you relate to Donald more than Joon, just leave now.

Scenario A is how it should go. It is how it would go, if you were both mature and understanding. There shouldn't be blame. You should talk to each other, and find the best solution. If it's hard to jump back into being friends right away, that's fine. But there should be no name-calling, no shaming, and no victimising.

Now, some pressed cunts may go "but A is a fake example, you're delusional to think it could be real. It's not my fault I get mad when they break my heart."

1. Actually, Scenario A is literally the story of 2 of my acquaintances. It's a real story. It's fucking true, so there. There's still friends, and very happy being as so. 2. If you try to victimise yourself, I'm literally going to block you. 
Also, maybe you're just fucking despicable, and repulsive, in which case, it is your fault. Sorry not.

J out