But there's the thing, u can't keep choosing someone who doesn't choose you , you can't , because your person is going to be your person for the rest of your life.
Not just when you're young and things are perfect but when things get messy and you make a mistake and the world is less shiny.
You have to make sure that you have someone by your side that wants to be there,someone who wants to support you and encourage you, someone who gives you just as much effort as you give them,someone who wants to hear you laugh and make breakfast with you ,and listen to all your dumb jokes for twenty or thirty or fifty years, because they are different things in the life really hard and haunted things that make it heavy and hurtful at times but love should not be one of those things, Love should hold ur hand and help brave those storms, Love should be your safe place so please just don't give the best part of yourself to someone who doesn't see the value in what they are receiving, don't settle for anyone who doesn't look at you and know without hesitation that they want to stay, so man plz take care of yourself ❤️ god bless you